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Carlota H.
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Published in Change Becomes You

·Sep 2, 2020

Should You Quit Social Media?

It’s very easy, as it turns out. — “You didn’t know that so-and-so is pregnant?” — my friend asked, surprised — “It’s all over her Instagram.” “No, I haven’t been there in a while…” I replied, and immediately had to explain, because these days, nobody deletes a Social Media app on their phone without a reason. …

Social Media

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Should You Quit Social Media?
Should You Quit Social Media?
Social Media

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Aug 25, 2020

I’m Sex-Positive and I Think Ben Shapiro is Right About WAP

There is no shame in having some shame — When it comes to talking about sex, in my opinion, there is sort of a Goldie Locks situation. Too much, not enough or just right. Unfortunately, not many people find that healthy in between, that allows us to discuss sex in a mature way, having no shame, yet understanding that…

Sexuality

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I’m Sex-Positive and I Think Ben Shapiro is Right About WAP
I’m Sex-Positive and I Think Ben Shapiro is Right About WAP
Sexuality

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Published in Change Becomes You

·Jun 25, 2020

How to Fix the Way You See Your Body Once and For All

A hot take. — Before I begin, let me just make a quick disclaimer: I am young, able-bodied, and generally a sporty person. However, I have struggled with body insecurities in the past and I do think I put my finger on something that anyone could benefit from, no matter what their circumstances are…

Self Love

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How to Fix the Way You See Your Body Once and For All
How to Fix the Way You See Your Body Once and For All
Self Love

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Published in A Parent Is Born

·Jun 12, 2020

The Ethics of Family Vlogging

Should child labor laws apply? — We’ve seen them around the internet, even if we don’t consume their content. The Pinterest perfect home, the fashionable, pastel colors wearing mom and, the stars of the show, the kids. Lined up from tallest to shortest, wearing almost identical outfits, but with fun little twists. The dad appears, some…

Parenting

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The Ethics of Family Vlogging
The Ethics of Family Vlogging
Parenting

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Published in The Post-Grad Survival Guide

·Jun 10, 2020

Don’t Let Your Side Business Fail

6 things I learned working at a startup, where no one quit their day job — As a rule of thumb, I have always believed the phrase “If it were easy, everyone would be doing it.” And although starting a business is not easy at all, it seems to be everyone’s ambition. Your friend from high school has an escargot delivery service, your neighbor is trying…

Startup Lessons

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Don’t Let Your Side Business Fail
Don’t Let Your Side Business Fail
Startup Lessons

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May 21, 2020

In Defense of the Cool Girl

She’s not a dude in a hot girl’s body. She is real, and she has standards. — As Gillian Flynn brilliantly observed in her book and subsequent movie (directed by David Fincher) Gone Girl, “Men always use that, don’t they? As their defining compliment. She’s a Cool girl.” Yes, they do, and I’ve heard every version of it: “You’re so cool and understanding, most girls would throw…

Relationships

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In Defense of the Cool Girl
In Defense of the Cool Girl
Relationships

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Published in The Post-Grad Survival Guide

·May 13, 2020

Not Feeling Productive or Motivated? You May Need a New Hobby. Here’s How to Choose

All this time on your hands should be going into learning new skills and bettering yourself, right? Maybe not. At least not in the way you would expect. — Since the beginning of quarantine, it’s safe to say most of us have been going through a never-ending cycle that consists of phases of hyper-productivity (or at least attempts) and “if I see another photo of homemade bread, I’m going to lose it, I just want to watch Netflix” type…

Creativity

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Not Feeling Productive or Motivated? You May Need a New Hobby. Here’s How to Choose
Not Feeling Productive or Motivated? You May Need a New Hobby. Here’s How to Choose
Creativity

5 min read

Carlota H.

Carlota H.

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Avid traveler, beer lover and bookworm from Portugal

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